Everyone is nice......
Everyone is nice but at different levels. I came to understand this fact when a "friend" did the "nicest" thing to me. I had always thought she doesn't care or that she's a loner.
Most times we tag people as cruel because we don't understand that we all have different "nice-yness" level.
Just because someone can't/wont do it the way you would have done it doesn't mean you are nicer than they are and vice versa.
Our nice-yness" levels are different. If a stranger walks up to me and asks for direction to some place that I happen to work, I might go as far as taking him there myself... You may not. But that doesn't mean I am Nicer than you are. We are just operating at different "nice-yness" level.
Our different "nice-yness" levels can be influenced by
Past experiences
Culture.
Religion.
Sex.
Background.
Geographical area.
The most important thing is to understand that everyone is nice and no one is nicer. I am ME and YOU are YOU.
We all operate at different levels of "nice-yness". Do not use your own level of "nice-yness" as a yardstick to judge others... Respect them instead.
Sadiq Daniel is a certified crazy writer and Teens Coach that blogs on business, Self- development and Life lessons. He is currently working on his latest book: Everyone Thinks I’m Crazy, Slated to be out by February 2015. You can pursue him on Twitter: @sadiqspeaks LinkedIn: Sadiq Daniel and Email: Sadiqdaniel@gmail.com